IVF is already an emotional rollercoaster. You deserve a clinic that supports and guides you every step of the way. But the truth is, not all clinics are created equal. After 15 years of supporting couples through IVF, I’ve seen too many people stay with doctors they’re unhappy with. Why?

Often, it’s because starting over feels overwhelming. Or maybe you tell yourself, “They already know my history, so I should just stick it out.”

Here’s the thing: a fresh set of eyes and a new perspective might be exactly what you’re missing.

If you’ve ever felt like your doctor doesn’t truly see you or you’re just another number in their system, you’re not alone. Here are the most common red flags I see with my clients, and how to advocate for yourself so you can get the care you deserve.

So, how do you know if your clinic is truly the right fit? These are the most common red flags I see with my clients and what to do if you spot them.

Relationship Red Flags to Watch for in Your IVF Clinic

• Your Doctor Can’t Remember Your Story: If you’re constantly re-explaining your case, it’s a sign they’re not invested in your journey. You deserve a team that knows your history and treats you like an individual, not a file number.
• They Gaslight You: If you’ve ever felt dismissed, belittled, or like you’re “overreacting,” that’s a huge red flag. Trust your instincts, if something feels off, it probably is.
• Hard to Get a Hold Of: The first consultation might feel amazing, but if you’re left chasing them for answers or waiting days for a callback, it’s a sign they’re not prioritising your care.
• There is No Follow Up: You’ve just gone through a disappointing result or a failed cycle, and there’s no call to check in on you. You feel like a number, not a person. When you’re paying a premium price, you deserve better.
• When you’re pouring your heart, time, and money into this process, the least you deserve is a team that checks in on you, especially after a failed cycle. If they’re not showing up for you during the hardest moments, it’s a sign they’re not the right fit.

Protocol Red Flags That Could Be Hurting Your IVF Success

• The Same Protocol on Repeat: If your clinic isn’t willing to adapt or explore other options when something isn’t working, it’s a sign they’re stuck in a one-size-fits-all approach. IVF is not a cookie-cutter process, it should be tailored to your unique needs.
• Outdated Technology or Practices: Clinics that aren’t using the latest advancements in testing or embryo selection may not be giving you the best chance at success.
• Conservative Approach: While a conservative approach might work for some, it’s not always the best fit especially if you’re not seeing results quickly. Look for a clinic that’s willing to explore outside-the-box options, like testing for natural killer cells, EMMA and ALICE, or autoimmune protocols. These might not have “gold-standard evidence,” but I’ve seen them work clinically in hundreds of cases.

How to Advocate for Yourself

1. Ask the Right Questions: Write down a list of all your questions and concerns before your consultation. The answers might not be what you want to hear, but pay attention to how they handle your questions and how seriously they take them.
2. Trust Your Gut: If something feels off, you have every right to walk away and find a clinic that aligns with your needs. Trust is essential for this process to run smoothly—if you don’t trust your clinic, it’s not the right place for you.
3. Do Your Research: Have endometriosis? Autoimmune issues? Male factor infertility? Find a doctor who specialises in your specific needs. Not all clinics are equipped to handle every case, and finding the right fit can make all the difference.

Your IVF journey is too important to settle for anything less than exceptional care.

Most couples don’t realise just how much variation there is between clinics, and how much that can impact your results. By knowing these red flags and advocating for yourself, you can find a clinic that truly supports you every step of the way.

Your IVF journey doesn’t have to feel this way. With the right team and a clear plan, you can feel supported, confident, and in control of your next steps.

Feeling stuck and unsure if your clinic is the right fit?

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